Thursday, February 25, 2010

More college educated Women than Men===ramifications.

A bunch of articles of note have been released that have tried to address the issue of disproportionate number of college educated men and women. This has been happening for years with women tipping the scale years ago. Now, it's almost 1.5 women for every man in college. That's cool. But it's simply not a quirky statistic that merely highlights how equitable our society has become.

It's an big, interesting, issue with very far reaching consequences. Ironically, every ramification I've seen, and the commentary surrounding women's rise in high education has been negative. Here are some of the things that have change and why they suck for women. To be clear, these discussion is probably most pertinent to the class of society that is college educated, and not gay (obviously for both), and let me reiterate that while big number these observations address few in proportion. But here they are.


Disproportionate number of women to men in college. Tangentially speaking, during college, this ratio had made it such that women have a harder time finding men, so they settle for less. Men seize their opportunity to be more choosy and as a result women have to degrade their standards (or themselves) for love (or sex). 


Women are graduating earlier then their male counterparts. This redefines in a very broad way what women are looking for in a man. Assume this means that there are more educated women than educated men in the dating pool. I suspect this creates a "love premium" for educated men among educated women assuming educated women choose counterparts with similar education and social attributes, and for those who did not find a "college educated man" are dating men with less education. I find the social dynamics in the latter situation to be more interesting.... But at its core, this change sucks for women interestingly because women still marrying at a high rate. This might be a result at the "hedonistic marriage" where women are refusing to compromise on what they deem as important characteristics for a well lived life: a family, marriage, etc. This blows for women too! 


So, I've got a few thoughts on this, but I have to run. At the moment, I think I've put out the foundation for what I think is the problem--Cool Dad response if you will to the changing dynamics of male female college educated heterosexual relationships. 




3 comments:

  1. I think this trend can't continue for long. Men will realize they will have to work harder for success and love, and will eventually do so.

    Of course, this will only happen if we make education more affordable. Otherwise our country is deservedly screwed.

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  2. Ooh, this has inspired me to write a post of my own after I finish my papers due today. I read that NYT article when it first came out and I am reminded of how much it annoyed me.

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  3. This is interesting. I heard about it a while ago and may have even read the article (I can't remember anything these days).

    I would like to add to Tim's comment about education being more affordable. Perhaps part of the reason for the gender discrepancy is inability to pay for higher education, which is a big problem here.

    I think/hope there's more to a marriage than education level, but this is unfortunate for women. Just because somebody does not pursue higher education does not reflect lack of intelligence; I think it's more about career stability. A college degree does give people a leg up.

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